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This search topic came up on my blog info, and I realized that there are many times that you may be unsure if a woman wants a second date. It’s happened to me a couple of times, and friends as well, you go out on a date that is awful or just not all that exciting, and you realize at the end or sometimes part way through that this is just going no where. I know that some guys genuinely consider the fact that it may not have been perfect and try and look for signs of that. Others, just proceed to call for a follow up date, and either get ignored or get the run around. So here are 5  signs that she’s just not that into you or a second date…

5. She doesn’t mention talking to you later or catching up with you another time that week. Now if you bring it up and she dodges the question, it is just as good as her not having mentioned it. If a first date is good, we are making sure that you think so too, we are mentioning that we would like to hear from you and we already have a second date outfit in mind.

4. She doesn’t keep the conversation going. If a woman is into you she is going to ask you about your self. As much as we like when you ask us questions, if we really are interested we want to know everything about you. If you are on a first date and there is a lull in the conversation and instead of looking to fill the silence she checks her phone or looks ready to leave…you can be sure that you don’t need to call her for date number 2.

3. She doesn’t want a ride home. If a woman had a good time, she is going to want the at the door good night kiss, she is going to want to keep the conversation going during the car ride home, she isn’t going to mind you knowing where she lives. If a woman, doesn’t want you to take her home or to where ever her next destination is, and she doesn’t have a car, she is telling you that she would rather take a train or bus, pay for a cab or call a friend then have to spend another minute with you…

2. She mentions more than once how “happy she is to be single” and how she is “dating a lot of guys”. Not very subtle yes, but more than one mention of those kinds of things is a good sign that she doesn’t see things getting too serious with you. Usually if a woman knows she could really be into a guy she will save talk of other men and other dates for her friends and not for you…

1. She doesn’t tell you she had a good time. I know this seems obvious, but because women are often worried that men may not get her actions without the words, they make sure to make it clear. If they had a good time, want a second date, or really just had an amazing time they say it. We express emotion when we are happy and there is no reason to bullshit how you feel about a first date. So if she doesn’t let you know before you two part ways that she had a great time, or really enjoyed herself, you can pretty much be sure that she didn’t even if you think she did. If she did, she’ll say it…

Sometimes, believe it or not, for a woman, a date is just a date. I know a lot of times men want to believe that women are always going into dates  hoping to find a man and because she is just so into you and that this date means the world to her. It’s just not the case, women like to talk with and get to know new people just as much as the next guy and may not have any future plans for your wedding and kids when she does it…

So, look for the signs, take the hints, and enjoy the first date-they’re supposed to be fun…

Happy Hump Day

xoxo

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